Posts from ‘June, 2008’

Calling the locksmith

I lost my house key last night. It’s the first time I’ve ever lost a house key and I’m none too pleased with myself. I put it in my bag together with my mobile phone and it must have dropped out when I took out the phone to make several calls. That’s the only explanation I can think of because I remember taking the key out with me and I can’t find it anywhere else. It’s really annoying.

So this morning, after looking everywhere, I finally gave in and called my father-in-law for a locksmith’s number because we wanted to get the lock changed. My father-in-law very kindly made the call for me and an appointment was made for half past three in the afternoon. I left work at three to work from home so I could wait for the locksmith.

To his credit he was right on time. Then he took one look at my door and said, “Oh, your lock is this type.” Err… yes, what type was he thinking? Apparently, the guy had brought the wrong lock. Since I didn’t set up the appointment personally, I don’t know if he’d bothered to ask what type of lock mine was before showing up with all of one lock. Out of curiosity, shouldn’t they bring like, a few?

We had to reschedule because he had to go back to his office or wherever to get the right one. I’m not complaining about having to leave work early because it was my stupidity that landed me this inconvenience in the first place (besides, who complains about having to leave work early?); but I will allow myself a teeny whinge about having to make two appointments to change one lock.

From now on, I’m going to be doubly paranoid about where I keep my keys dammit.

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A badly needed mocha

I don’t usually need caffeine and definitely not this badly, but I’d be hard pressed to remember the last time I was this excited – relieved, even – to wrap my fingers around one of these. Blame it on a Friday, the alternately gloomy and humid, hot weather or simply brain cells that refuse to concentrate, but I needed this today. I only hope the slow week isn’t a troubling, or lasting, result of recent changes.

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Is Marat Safin back?

I’m still in shock from Marat Safin beating Novak Djokovic in the 2nd round of Wimbledon. I said earlier that I like Safin – always have – but I also said I’d hoped Djokovic would end Roger Federer’s reign. Now I’m throwing all my support behind the tall, dark and handsome Russian. When he’s on top of his game he can be pretty damn unbeatable so let’s hope he stays that way for another week and three days.

Check out the post-match press conferences here:

Safin said.

Djokovic said.

I really like Safin’s slightly grumpy air, sarcasm and deadpan humour. It’s his frequent mental slipups on court that I want to smack him for. The least someone so good-looking and charismatic could do is win more matches so we can see more of him, no?

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Kenny Gay

I am a little annoyed with Kenny G today, because I dreamt in the wee hours of this morning that he was gay. I know it’s not his fault and I really have nothing against gay people; I’m just a little peeved because I woke up really tired, as one tends to when they’ve been dreaming instead of sleeping soundly.

In my dream, I discovered that not only was Kenny G gay, he was also going out with a university student. A guy student, obviously. It’s a complete parallel of this story. Then I happened to meet his err… partner, and realised this “student” wasn’t as young as I’d expected. In fact, he was in his late twenties at least; one of those who’d gone back to university after working.

And then I woke up really tired. And irritated.

For the record, Kenny G is happily married to a woman and has two sons. And I actually really like the guy because I did a phone interview with him once and he was totally nice.

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My radio DJ audition

I auditioned to be a radio DJ today. It was totally unplanned – a couple of my colleagues were going and I tagged along out of curiosity. Unfortunately, what was really only a 15 minute exercise became over an hour, and I, more bored than anything, agreed to audition to “make my time worthwhile”. Besides, I was really curious about the audition process and the only way I was going to find out how they do it was by doing it myself.

So there I was, staring down a microphone in a recording room, scripts on a music stand before me. It reminded me of all those behind-the-scenes clips I’ve seen of actors recording their roles for an animation feature, which made it all seem a lot cooler than it probably really is. All I had to do was: a) read a news bulletin in my serious voice; b) read a public service announcement in my conversational voice; c) talk about myself.

The news bulletin was easy, the public service announcement probably didn’t sound very conversational, and I totally winged c) because I did not have anything prepared. My aim was just to get into the recording room and check it out for myself, which I accomplished.

I must say, though, having watched the boys audition for some TV thingy a few years ago and having auditioned for a TV commercial once myself, this was the easiest of the lot. It probably has much to do with the fact that I’m faced with a microphone and not a video camera. My TV commercial audition was a disaster – I swear I’m not exaggerating – because I froze when the camera was turned on. The fact that I didn’t prepare for this because I didn’t intend to do it also means there was no pressure and no expectations. Hindsight did not do its usual “I should have done this” trip on me because I didn’t really care. I have no regrets and it all turned out pretty fun.

So did I get it? I don’t know. I guess if they call me in the next couple of days it will mean I did enough to warrant a second meeting, but I’m not really hoping – or caring. I’m leaving it completely open. I walked in without a resume or even filling out all the necessary paperwork so to walk out with a new experience is already a couple hours well-spent in my book. One thing’s for sure: this is something I never even imagined I would ever do.

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Tennis mad

I’m completely spent. Physically. It feels great. After an interval of several months, I’m playing tennis regularly again. Today marks the third time in a span of a week. I love going out there and just whacking the ball as hard as I can. It’s not a good workout unless I’m totally pooped after, and if I’m going to sweat I might as well go all the way, right?

If only I can clock 11am to 7pm so I can get in some tennis in the mornings, though tiring myself out for an evening in front of the telly also feels pretty good. I highly recommend strenuous exercise for the angst-filled; it’s the perfect channel for pent-up frustration and unreleased anger, and it’s guaranteed to leave you too exhausted to be worked up over anything.

While I’m on the subject of tennis, Wimbledon has begun, and Y and I are keeping a close watch on the proceedings. My die-hard Roger Federer fan hubby is hoping the Swiss world number one will take the trophy, but I reckon it’s time someone else is crowned champion. I don’t care if it’s world number two Rafael Nadal or world number three Novak Djokovic or even some dark horse like Marat Safin (that’s almost impossible but I like Safin because he’s good-looking so there).

So the rivalry is on. With Federer and Djokovic drawn in the same half, only one of them can make it to the final, and we’re both betting the other finalist will be Nadal. Fingers crossed.

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What defines my everyday?

It’s a question I’ve been giving much thought to of late. When someone asks me how I am, my automatic response used to be: “Good. Been busy with work. The usual.” Then one day I realised it sounded as if my entire life revolved around work, so nowadays I say: “Good. Working hard but playing hard too.”

The truth, though, is I work more than I play. The balance sounds about right – it’s definitely good news for the bosses – but I’ve been wondering if work should define my everyday. Should my life really be predominantly about work? Or to put it another way, is work my sole purpose in life?

I don’t want it to be. I mean, I love my job and all, but for me, there’s a fine line between loving my job and doing it well, and obsessing over it. I don’t want to be a workaholic – not when it comes to my day job anyway. I suppose it would be different if I were doing my own thing; I’ve always been an independent one. You could say I’m anal and want everything my own way, but the truth is that is the way I work best. That’s why I love being a writer.

I digress. In short, I’ve been thinking about purpose; motivation; big picture. It’s a train of thought birthed from observation of my colleagues and accepting that there are so many things I cannot control at work. Sometimes I wonder if this is all just an excuse to conceal my knee-jerk reaction of withdrawing when I come to a brick wall. I cannot control all these things, therefore I will step back and not get emotionally invested.

It may not (always?) be a bad thing. After all, the conscious decision to withdraw and not let work define my each day has resulted in mullings and ruminations about what does define my everyday. And right off the bat, I realise that a big part of it is Y. My marriage is my top priority, as it should be, but more than that, it keeps me grounded in the world outside of the office. It reminds me to look beyond my nine-to-five existence/industry. It puts things into perspective and prevents me from giving the trivial more weight than is really due. For this, I am thankful.

But it does not adequately answer my question. I don’t have all the answers, but I think I know where to start. Don’t give me a cliched Christian mantra of life purpose and don’t tell me I should get pregnant because a child will give me purpose – I have no doubt he/she will but that’s a completely different discussion altogether. Besides, bringing a child into the world for the sole intention of seeking life purpose probably isn’t the best way to start off my parenting career.

Perhaps it doesn’t even matter if I don’t find answers. Perhaps what matters are the right questions, time spent pondering and silent conversations with and about a Creator. And along the way, I should still play pretty damn hard.

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My mother’s daughter

As a celebrity and entertainment writer, I do a fair amount of interviews with actors and singers and the like. I don’t get flown to Los Angeles or Europe to meet these people, but I get to talk to them over the phone, or maybe even see them if they’re in town and I get really lucky. (I’ve been toying with the idea of making a list so I don’t forget who I’ve interviewed.)

So it says something about me that probably the biggest highlight – the one that has stuck in my head well into this year – of 2007 was attending press conferences for Roger Federer, Pete Sampras, Rafael Nadal and Richard Gasquet when they were in town. I don’t splash out on expensive designer clothing, I don’t seek retail therapy and I have zero ambition when it comes to corporate success, but when it comes to sports, I am truly my mother’s daughter. She is entirely responsible for getting me started on watching badminton, tennis, football and even Formula One (although it took a while for me to truly become a fan of that last one).

The realisation surprised me – that I was more excited about sporting personalities than I was about showbiz stars. That’s not to say I would turn down an opportunity to interview U2 or George Clooney or someone – I would do a lot of things for a one-on-one interview with my list of favourites – but for me at least, few bands/actors induce the same level of delirious excitement FedEx and Rafa evoked when they came to KL.

It also explains why I was excited about interviewing Choong Tan Fook, why I am thrilled about the French Formula One GP later tonight and Wimbledon starting tomorrow, and why I absolutely cannot wait for the Beijing Olympics.

I went to the Sepang Circuit for the first time on Friday. We had to attend a press conference and I drew the short straw in the last minute. No, actually, the guy who was supposed to do it called in sick. It was a Super GT press conference, and even though I have no interest in Super GT and wouldn’t have been able to tell the drivers from Adam, I was excited about checking out the circuit.

Luckily for me, the attraction lay in going to Sepang, because the press conference was awful. The drivers had just landed a new sponsorship deal but I swear they looked like their cat had just died. They looked completely miserable to be there, they didn’t smile even for the photographers, they mumbled their answers – it was Bad. I was, to be honest, really surprised. Wouldn’t the Japanese work ethic inspire them to at least smile for the media? My boss, who was with me, says Japanese are generally all like that and that is why the country has such a high suicide rate, but I’m not convinced. The country cannot all look like they’re in mourning all the time.

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An unexpected visitor

We thought it was a lizard, or worse, a mouse. But not even mice make such high-pitched squeaking sounds. Besides, how did a mouse get into a box full of press kits and folders anyway?

We thought it was a cicada – it was small and black and perched at the bottom of the box. But it also had ears!

And that was when we realised…

It was a baby bat.

How it got into R’s press kit collection we do not know. The more interesting question begs: how long had it been staying in the box?

We waited for evening before releasing it outside the office. We hoped it would find Mama bat, wherever she was.

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Needed: a home for stray kittens

Please adopt one if you can. Full details at cyber-red.blogspot.

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