10 July 2015 by Soph
The most important thing I’ve learned about priorities
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option,” said the very wise Maya Angelou.
This has probably been one of the most important lessons I’ve had to learn over the past couple of years. I imagine most people already know this, instinctively if not in so many words. But I’m loyal by nature – perhaps too much so – and it’s taken me far longer than it should have to realise this.
My loyalty means I will continue to make someone a priority because of what we experienced together once upon a time. It means I will remember the good times, and, on the basis of what was once good, defend someone who is no longer worth defending. It means I will keep on trying, even when it is apparent that the other person is not.
It meant… My loyalty meant… Because I can only hope that I’ve learned my lesson.